...okay, so maybe I don't really have a secret...because maybe there AREN'T any real secrets, to being a Nana, or to being a Mom (or a parent), for that matter. Maybe the real secret is that we all just do the best we can...with our kids, and then, when we are particularly blessed, with our grand kids...and really, in life. We all just do the best we can!
Harper, my granddaughter, is growing fast, though she is still so tiny! She explores her little world eagerly, paying so much attention now to expressions and faces and sounds and kitties! She is almost ready to sit all by herself; she loves to stand up, with help; and still loves to be cuddled into her blanket too! She laughs the cutest little belly laugh, especially when her momma is playing with her! She is so fun to watch because everything is new to her...so watching her explore is a little like seeing the world for the first time, again! I mean, I had totally forgotten how much fun it was to put my toes in my mouth! Ahhh, she's so adorable and I love her so much!
A sweet friend of mine, a young mom, posted a picture on Facebook today of her son heading off to Kindergarten...and it doesn't seem that long ago when I took those same pictures; of new backpacks, clean shoes, fresh crayons...time really does fly by! I was remembering a letter I had written to the girls' elementary school parents and faculty upon quitting my job there and moving here... I wrote to them about some of lessons I had learned while working among incredible educators and alongside amazing parents...and honestly, I probably learned the most important lessons from the children themselves...lessons about being a kid, and about being an adult...lessons about the human experience. The last line in the letter was this -
"I have learned that we all really want the same things for these children - for them to feel success and pride, belonging and security, for them to feel encouraged, nurtured and appreciated, and a sense of 'being a part of" something...and really, we all want the same things for ourselves..."
The secret to being a Nana...well, I don't have any secrets, but I am ready with lots of love and kisses, and boxes of fresh crayons (when she's ready!)...and, I am just doing the best I can!
Oh, but here is a pretty new secret...I'm going to be a Nana again in February!!! Congratulations to Allison & Stephen!!! I am so excited for you!